Who are you beyond the meatsuit?

Beyond the "Meat Suit": Who Are You When No One's Watching?

November 20, 20253 min read

Welcome to the start of a magnificent new journey, Fabulous Creator! For the next five weeks, we are building your Launchpad—the unshakable core of self-command and clarity you need to manifest your True Awesome Life.

And where do we begin? By asking the most audacious question of all: If you're not your job title, your relationship status, or even your name, then who the hell are you?

We spend so much of our lives wrapped up in our "meat suit"—this collection of flesh and bone, adorned with labels and roles. We introduce ourselves as "I'm a marketing executive" or "I'm single," and we mistake those temporary costumes for our eternal, magnificent identity.

This is where things get sticky, because any label that we put on ourselves becomes a limitation. When you define yourself as a "graphic designer" or "divorced," you create a box. And you, my darling, are infinitely more expansive than any box a social security number or a ring finger can define.

The Truth About Your Vibrational Essence

At your essence, you are not the performance; you are the power behind the performance. You are a vibrational being interpreting vibration.

When you allow an external label to define you, you are doing more than just simplifying an introduction; you are constraining your energetic output. Your energy contracts to fit the boundaries of that label. Suddenly, you can only feel successful when you get a promotion, or you can only feel complete when you are in a relationship. That's no way for a creator to live! That's living in a cage built by society and lined with your own limiting beliefs.

This week is about stripping away the false identities to find the truth, restoring your power, and creating yourself anew.

The Tool: Crafting Your "Being Statement"

The key to unlocking this expansive self is to create a powerful, internal declaration: your Being Statement.

A Being Statement is a declaration of your core, essential essence—it is not about what you do; it is about who you are on a molecular, cosmic level. It is the unshakeable foundation of your Launchpad.

For example, my personal Being Statement is: “I am a divine space; I'm anchored by my in-breath, and I'm solidified by all other sparks of the divine.” Notice how this statement is entirely self-referential and requires nothing from the external world. It cannot be taken away by a layoff, a breakup, or a bad hair day. It is simply, eternally true.

This declaration is a tool that restores your power every time you speak it or feel it. It reminds your magnificent self that you are not a victim of circumstance; you are the source of creation.

Your Challenge: The Core Question

This is your invitation to start shedding those heavy, ill-fitting labels. This week, start the serious reflection and journaling that leads to your own unique Being Statement.

I invite you to sit down with a clean page and ask yourself this single, penetrating question:

"Who are you truly, beyond the labels and limitations that have been placed upon you?"

Your answer will be the foundation of everything we build next. Don't rush it. The truth is often quiet, powerful, and slightly terrifying in its magnificence. Embrace it.

We are just getting started, darling!

Know that you are loved!

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Join us for Sanctuary

Ready to move beyond reflection and step into the power of your Being Statement? Join us this Sunday at 11:00 AM Eastern for Sanctuary. We will be going deeper into this week's transformative topic, holding space for profound self-discovery with a guided meditation and an intimate heart circle. This is your next step in manifesting your True Awesome Life. You can get more information about Sanctuary and secure your spot here: https://orangedragonflycenter.com/sanctuary.

Jeff describes himself as a Divine Space anchored by his in-breath and solidified by all other sparks of the Divine.

Some of the labels that have been used to describe him are productivity expert, Jedi Cleric, tantric practitioner, systems specialist, clothing designer, author, speaker, cohost of the Spiritual Sex & Candy Show, and The Fabulous One

He guides gay men (and those who love them) in breaking free from their default life, rediscover their inner spark, and becoming the fabulous creators of their True Awesome Life. All while traveling the country in his classic motorhome with his two pups.

He is also in the process of creating the Orange Dragonfly Transformational Center and Temple of Jediism which he says is going to be a cross between an RV park and summer camp where people will come to balance their mind, body, spirit, and business.

JP Adkins

Jeff describes himself as a Divine Space anchored by his in-breath and solidified by all other sparks of the Divine. Some of the labels that have been used to describe him are productivity expert, Jedi Cleric, tantric practitioner, systems specialist, clothing designer, author, speaker, cohost of the Spiritual Sex & Candy Show, and The Fabulous One He guides gay men (and those who love them) in breaking free from their default life, rediscover their inner spark, and becoming the fabulous creators of their True Awesome Life. All while traveling the country in his classic motorhome with his two pups. He is also in the process of creating the Orange Dragonfly Transformational Center and Temple of Jediism which he says is going to be a cross between an RV park and summer camp where people will come to balance their mind, body, spirit, and business.

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